quoting: CaptainPlanet

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so you're like a girl though right? but thinks shes a guy?

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"so you're like a girl though right? but thinks shes a guy?"

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quoting: Ivan

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As to the gender issue and what I think is your assumption (correct me if I'm wrong) that I'm talking about pretty casual friends... I am actually thinking specifically about a few people that I have considered very close friends for years, who have become that naturally and not through me trying to force anything, and with whom there has been much sharing about deeply personal topics. Never have any of them found the gender thing confusing. It may be that they don't see me as that important, but that would contradict both actual heartfelt words they've all repeatedly said to me over the years, without me prompting them (about how they very much value my friendship and consider me to be an interesting and wonderful person and among their intimates) and the way we act on the very rare occasions when we do see each other. By very rare, I mean that I usually don't see the same person more than once every 2-6 months. I ask a person to hang out usually not more often than once every two weeks (much longer if they refuse several times), and since they're usually busy and they never ask me back, that's how often meetings actually end up happening

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