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Click for profile 		Introduction: I'm a fucked up piece of humanity.

To begin to describe how aside i feel from everything would require a good decade of therapy.

One kernel of happiness I find in life is in being alone. And who the hell really wants to hear what i do when i'm all alone? after all, aren't we all disgusting in the dark?

Sometimes I sit in a towel after a shower and just think how huge the world is. How fucking scary it is. The depth of context is a fucking Rorschach painting out there. Each island of significant colliding within itself. Example: Nelsen Mandela was imprisoned for 27 years. Or 18. I forget. I think of the human suffering he has endured while also thinking that in the billions of years since the universe expansion a huge fucking rock can hit the planet like a pond full of seagulls. But now I'm digressing.

Ultimately what i am describing is, for lack of a better word, my life's goal. Or at least, the major internalized force that motivates my actions. Planet JP is made out of lonely but conditionally happy earths crust. See: 3 or 4 times i quit spank and history of failed relationships that i have more or less passive aggressively ended. IF planet JP is elective wanting to be alone, then it's moon is a need to feel normal. To connect. To get married have children and be happy with it.

Introspection a bitch. You can analyze whatever little facet of your psyche but realizing the motivation behind something....something that you want, doesn't give you power over it. That's T.V. That's a nice idea perpetuated by a writing staff that thinks it's being inspirational.

Guess what i'm saying is....girls suck.
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Click for profile 		Sorry dude, since you're a member of a social species, there is no way you could be truly happy being alone for too long. Are there any people that you've ever genuinely liked?
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Click for profile 		My friend zane. Possibly because his sexual addiction and loneliness estrange him from ever wondering what i think or feel.
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Click for profile 		Is he the dude who got yelled at by Stephen Harper?
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Click for profile 		I'm going to say "dude" one more time just to get it out of my system. Duuuude!
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Click for profile 		Also....social species is suppose to be an term objectively applied to it's subjects. Since we are the subjects, can we objectively apply it to ourselves? If not, i guess i'm off the hook for that little theory.
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Click for profile 		If we took all the animals and ranked them in terms of degree of interactivity with others of their kind, we and the others closedly related to us would be pretty high up there, along with dogs and ants and ducks. Isolate a dog or an ant or a duck or a chimpanzee for too long and it will end up distressed. Same with a human. A cat would probably do fine, so would an eagle.
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Click for profile 		You know how gay is used in the derogatory....like 'that's gay.' I was thinking the other day that all these people upset by it's usage like that seem to forget that gay, with the implication of something being homosexual, is also a bastardized use of the word which had it's origin with homophobes until they took it back. If they can make a case that gay in some contexts, doesn't mean happy....i think it's only adult to say that in some contexts saying somethings "is gay" doesn't necessarily mean it's "gay"

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quoting: Tiresias
If we took all the animals and ranked them in terms of degree of interactivity with others of their kind, we and the others closedly related to us would be pretty high up there, along with dogs and ants and ducks. Isolate a dog or an ant or a duck or a chimpanzee for too long and it will end up distressed. Same with a human. A cat would probably do fine, so would an eagle.


Interactivity is a subjective perception of which we created to relate things too.

Human science is one part observation and one part making shit up and saying it's true.
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Click for profile 		Are you saying that "gay" was once an insult and then it got taken back by homosexuals? Much like "queer"?
Aside from that, I'm not sure I understand your point. Imagine if people went around saying, "Pfft, that's so black!" at something they dislike.
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quoting: Dante
Interactivity is a subjective perception of which we created to relate things too.

Human science is one part observation and one part making shit up and saying it's true.

I literally mean "amount of time spent with others" as a measure of interactivity.

And yeah, we don't tend to see things as they are, but as we are.
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Click for profile 		On the other hand, that's why the methods and tools of science are so frakking cool, because they allowed us to expand our knowledge and observe more than our senses would normally allow.
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Click for profile 		I was under the impression that most white people do.

That analogy only works if all gays are happy. When you call someone black, it's because their skin is a close approximation of that colour. When you call someone Gay, it has nothing to do with the origin of the word.
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On the other hand, that's why the methods and tools of science are so frakking cool, because they allowed us to expand our knowledge and observe more than our senses would normally allow.


Meh....dead horse mode, but science....to me....can only be applied as a tool and not a measure of truth.
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When you call someone Gay, it has nothing to do with the origin of the word.
Who cares? Languages change all the time. Hardly anyone uses the word "gay" to mean anything other than "homosexual" these days. It might eventually go back to primarily meaning "happy" or it might eventually go on to mean "British." Who knows.

[This post edited by Tiresias on 18 February 2011 ]

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Click for profile 		Also, i would just like to say, it's weird how if i wash my hair, i look like i watch doctor who marathons. If I sleep on my couch and don't shower, my hair gets a little messy and I look women want to do lines of coke off my penis.

edit: It's also weird how something as simple as an h can change nonsense to sense.

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quoting: Tiresias
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When you call someone Gay, it has nothing to do with the origin of the word.
Who cares? Languages change all the time. Hardly anyone uses the word "gay" to mean anything other than "homosexual" these days. It might eventually go back to primarily meaning "happy" or it might eventually go on to mean "British." Who knows.


It won't if people are too quick to kill any change in the word because of misplace moralism.

If i say "moralism is gay", it's a different word than if i was to say those two dudes are kissing are gay'. Though it might be the same word as "that smiling guy is really gay' given the context.

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Click for profile 		oh man. I found dragon fruit on my floor. wtf.
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I was under the impression that most white people do.

Lol. I see what you mean if you're saying that a lot of white people may have little exposure to cultures outside of their own, but I'm talking about the universal human tendency to assume that what they observe around them has a mind just like they do. It's how the earliest religions, the animist ones, got started.

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Click for profile 		I would of assumed it's because lightning is fucking scary and it's a lot more comforting if it comes from something you can skin.
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